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Things to remember about your avoidant partner

Published on Nov 22, 2023 05:44 PM IST

From understanding our emotions to creating a safe place for ourselves, here are a few things to remember when we are with an avoidant partner.

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Each person has their own attachment style. While some have anxious attachment style, some are avoidant attachers. Being with a person with avoidant attachment style can be difficult. "Just like the way your brain works is about you and not them - the way their brain works is about them and not you. Working on creating safety and security for yourself, instead of believing it’s up to them, is going to help you feel a hell of a lot better in your relationship," wrote relationship Coach Rebecca Ore. Here are a few reminders for people with avoidant partners.(Unsplash)

Published on Nov 22, 2023 05:44 PM IST

Each person has their own attachment style. While some have anxious attachment style, some are avoidant attachers. Being with a person with avoidant attachment style can be difficult. "Just like the way your brain works is about you and not them - the way their brain works is about them and not you. Working on creating safety and security for yourself, instead of believing it’s up to them, is going to help you feel a hell of a lot better in your relationship," wrote relationship Coach Rebecca Ore. Here are a few reminders for people with avoidant partners.(Unsplash)

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When they seem to withdraw from us, we may think that it is because of something that we have done – however, that may not be the case for avoidant partners. (Unsplash)

Published on Nov 22, 2023 05:44 PM IST

When they seem to withdraw from us, we may think that it is because of something that we have done – however, that may not be the case for avoidant partners. (Unsplash)

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The way avoidant partners react or respond to a situation is because of the way they think – it hardly ever has something to do with us. (Unsplash)

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The way avoidant partners react or respond to a situation is because of the way they think – it hardly ever has something to do with us. (Unsplash)

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We can always choose to feel safe and secure in the relationship, even though the avoidant partner may withdraw in case of connection or intimacy. (Unsplash)

Published on Nov 22, 2023 05:44 PM IST

We can always choose to feel safe and secure in the relationship, even though the avoidant partner may withdraw in case of connection or intimacy. (Unsplash)

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We should be able to create a safe space for our own emotions without worrying about how they are going to react or behave. (Unsplash)

Published on Nov 22, 2023 05:44 PM IST

We should be able to create a safe space for our own emotions without worrying about how they are going to react or behave. (Unsplash)

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When the avoidant partner tries to withdraw themselves, we may feel the urgent desire to keep them close. However, we should understand that those are sensations of the body trying to avoid anxious thoughts.(Unsplash)

Published on Nov 22, 2023 05:44 PM IST

When the avoidant partner tries to withdraw themselves, we may feel the urgent desire to keep them close. However, we should understand that those are sensations of the body trying to avoid anxious thoughts.(Unsplash)

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