Datiquettes Singles should follow while on the hunt for love on dating apps
Dating is not just about finding people with similar interests and common likes, it is also a journey of self-discovery.
The dating landscape is constantly undergoing changes. And adults, both young and old, are presented with an array of choices and opportunities to new ways of meeting people. The younger generation wants to challenge conventional dating and relationship norms, and there is an obvious transformation underway.
According to Tinder’s Year In Swipe report, the modern dating game has taken a turn as they found singles were less concerned about the outcome of a relationship and more interested in enjoying the process of getting to know someone.
Dr Chandni Tugnait, Life coach and Relationship Expert, shares Datiquette, with 10 dating etiquettes to keep in mind while using dating apps in 2024.
Put Yourself First: Your dating journey is about discovering yourself and your desires. 80% of 18-25 year olds agree that their own self-care is their top priority when dating. And close to 75% of youngsters find a match more attractive if they are open to working on their mental well-being.
Show the real you: Your profile is your canvas — let it speak volumes! Showcase your authentic self through a captivating mix of photos, videos, fun quotes and even voice notes whenever you can.
Match With Intent: Clarify your dating intentions to ensure you and your match are on the same journey. Whether you want to find new friends or are looking for love, it is best to clearly state let the other know in the beginning.
Curiosity Over Assumptions: Forge real connections by being open to other people's ways of thinking. Don't be quick to make assumptions. Show genuine curiosity to get to know your match.
Ditch The Dinner Date: Add a dash of excitement to your dating experience by ditching the traditional dinner date and level it up with some fun activities. Some examples include coffee date, concerts and festivals, stand-up comedy shows, movie night and arcades.
Sober dates for the win: Sober dating is increasingly becoming more popular for singles as they believe it is a genuine way to get to know people. Tinder’s Year in Swipe 2022 report highlights how more and more singles are raising a glass to sober dates, with 72% users saying that they don’t drink or only drink occasionally on their Tinder profiles.
Be Mindful with your wit: Humour can be fantastic (and sexy even), but steer clear of offensive and hurtful jokes.
Farewell to Ghosting: While looking for love, be honest and show respect while communicating with the other person. Instead of ghosting, recognise that closure is crucial for both parties.
Be Positive: No one likes a Debbie or Drew Downer. So, try and maintain an upbeat and stress-free vibe while talking to matches. Remember, dating is about having fun.
Consent is Key: Everyone has their comfort zone. Respect them! According to the survey report, 7 out of 10 adults believe that consent should be discussed openly with partners.
